4 Ways to Clear Your Mind When You Don’t Have Time

The following is a guest post from regular contributor, Emily at So Damn Domestic.

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It’s one of those days.

I’ve got stuff to do and my mind is muddled.

I haven’t been getting good sleep lately; dreaming all night every night (because my brain won’t stop) is exhausting.

I’ve got to clear my mind.

Have you ever been in a funk like this? I get them now and then, and sometimes it’s hard to break the cycle. But the faster I do, the sooner I’m back to normal, kicking butt and taking names (and having fun).

So how DO we clear our minds? How CAN we break out of a funk?

I have a few tricks for breaking through. They don’t all always work, but usually at least one of them will snap me out of it.  Here are 4 ways to clear your mind:

Give yourself permission to stop

The world won’t end if you put down the to-do list, stop making plans in your head, and just breathe. Even if you only take an hour, or 15 minutes, or even 5 minutes to try one of these tricks, giving yourself permission to actually let go for that period of time will allow you to have more success.

Meditate

You don’t have to sit in full lotus on a pillow in front of a Buddha to meditate. You don’t have to wear yoga pants and a french braid. You don’t have to chant or have a guided mp3 talk you through it. And you don’t need a significant amount of time to meditate.

I’m not an expert… I’m just now learning, but here’s how I do it:

  • Slow down. If I’m moving, I move more slowly.
  • Yesterday I was taking the shells off of hard boiled eggs while I meditated. I kept working, but more slowly.
  • Feel the movements of your body. Feel the center of your body where your breath fills you the most. Relax any tension, especially in your shoulders, neck, and jaw. Notice the feel of the air on your skin. Pay attention to your contact with the earth.
  • While I shelled the eggs with my hands in a bowl of water, I felt every swish of the water on my fingers, every piece of shell sloughing off with a quiet satisfying crack, and felt the corners of my feet firmly in contact with the floor.
  • Let your thoughts go. It’s nearly impossible to have NO thoughts. But as I understand it, that isn’t the goal in meditation. When a thought pops into your head, let it go. Some people will imagine the thought written on a leaf, floating away down a river. Others picture the thought floating away like a cloud across the sky.
  • Picturing streams or clouds is distracting for me, so when a thought pops into my mind, I hold it to me briefly like a mental hug, and then expel it as if I’m opening the embrace. It’s hard to explain since it isn’t visual, but this is how I let my thoughts go.
  • Do it for as long as you can or need to. I only had a few (2 or 3) minutes of this time before one of my kids needed me for something. But it was enough to slow my mind and make me more present again. Like a mental reboot.

Change your scenery

Head to the front porch with your lunch. Go to a neighbor’s house for a visit. Drive to a park or the library. Visit a coffee shop.

When you’re trying to break any kind of cycle, changing location is a huge help. It gets us away from the conditions that trigger the same kind of thinking, or some sort of fancy psychology like that.

All I know is that this is huge. It works.

Move

Go for a walk. Dance. Do yoga. Have a tickle fight.

Get your blood flowing, bringing oxygen throughout your body and to your brain, and you’ll feel renewed and ready to focus again.

We don’t need much time to try any of these, or even all of them. But when we finish, our minds will feel so much clearer, and we’ll be ready to take on the rest of the day with new focus and energy.

Which will you try first?

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Emily Chapelle is military wife and mama to two little ones.  She blogs at So Damn Domestic.  Get her free ebook, Finding the Awesome,for more inspiration and guided, broken-down exercises to do more, stress less, ditch guilt, and love your life.

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12 Responses to 4 Ways to Clear Your Mind When You Don’t Have Time

  1. 1
    Margie says

    Wow! What a timely article for me. Lately, I think I go to the movies every night when I go to bed, dreaming and then being awake an not being able to settle back to sleep. I am a teacher on summer break, but haven’t been able to turn off my mind. I look forward to trying some of these tips.

    • 1.1
      Emily Chapelle says

      Oh man, I totally know what you mean about going to the movies every night. And it really is so exhausting! I hope some of these work well for you. :) We’re about to go for a family walk and then swimming later. MOVING helps me so much.

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    Linda says

    I like to say a rosary when I get like this… Nothing like some time with God to clear the mind and help you get in the right frame of mind! <3

    • 2.1
      Emily Chapelle says

      So glad you have something that works well for you! :)

  3. 3
    jessica matier (@AW2SL) says

    This is such a valuable article for me. My mind is constantly running and bogged down with the most trivial stuff. The only thing that has helped at all is yoga. I love this article and would love you to come share it at Pin Your Friday Favorite on my blog. Thanks for the great info!

    • 3.1
      Emily Chapelle says

      Yoga is amazing that way … it kind of combines the Move and Meditate options… for me at least. And if you go somewhere else (studio, outdoors, wherever), it could give you a change of scenery too.

  4. 4
    Jenny Lynn says

    I love to meditate. It really helps calm my mind when it is spinning. Sometimes , I wake up in the middle of the night and I will meditate to help get back to sleep.

    • 4.1
      Emily Chapelle says

      Jenny, do you have any other tips for meditation or do you kind of do it the way I described? It’s so helpful already for me but I’m still very new to it.

  5. 5
    Harold says

    Focusing on your breathing while meditating can help clear your mind.

  6. 6
    Lilly Ferrick says

    I recently started creating my daily to-do list right after my morning quiet time, after I’ve read the bible, prayed and read something inspirational. I used to do it at the desk, but the papers, two laptops, ipad, VOIP phone, etc., stressed me out. Doing this in the quiet has made a big difference for me.

    • 6.1
      Emily Chapelle says

      That’s a great idea. Changing your scenery can definitely have an effect on your state of mind.

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